Is Home school really for your child?

I don't understand why some people home school. Some are just unorganized,and really want to follow behind others. How can you home school ,and you have a bunch of other small children at home needing your attention. Lets not forget everyday like of cooking, shopping etc. Is it fair to the child that some get out of bed at 12pm to start a lesson? Lets not forget the social life that all children need to grow,and to be able to converse with other children of age group.

Lets face it how many parents even have a high school diploma or a degree. The older the child gets the harder the lesson will becomes. so if a parent have not went far in school, it will defeat the purpose, and the child will eventually fall behind on reading level, math and academics. We can't hide our children from the outside world because we are afraid they will not be Muslims ,and have this idea that other children will have a influence on they way they think or act. Allah swt makes muslims and nobody can lead you astray. How will our muslim children be competitive in this world with other children that have social skills, and a better education.

We never know what may happen in life we can get sick or we may need to go out to work, and if your child only know the walls of your home they will be throw into shock if they have to go out to the real world of school. If our children are secure in their religion no one can lead them astray. They also have a chance to give dawa about Islam to others.

Does Deen over Dunya Show help the Community?

Does the Deen over Dunya Show help the community? The show backbite other masjids, and complain about what is going on , but have they came up with a solutions for our problems that sisters face in our daily lives? I find the host to be arrogant, loud and argumentative toward the callers, and why when a sister calls his first question is " Sister are you married" like what does your question or comment have to do with it.

Let me tell you the solutions to the problem. I suggest a "Shariah Court" be set-up and each masjid consist of four brothers one should be the Imam. A brother with moral, family values, good character,and knowledgeable in Islam law. They should investigate brothers before marry a sister, and this should be done as a team with the walkil. Things should be investigated; the brothers finances, criminal background, child abuse, and find out how many times he been married, HIV test, and family background. If a sister chose not to follow the rules of the masjid the Iman should have the right not to marry them, and the walkil can step down. We need rules in the community, and we should follow them. Just because a brother or sister looks good we cannot over look what is beneath the skin (the heart) or the intentions. We have to many trying to be friends of each other ,and letting the brothers get away free from responsibility.

The Plogamy Plot In The Community

As saalam alkium, Maybe at one time before Islam you was thriving as a independent sisters, going to school, working ,and had real goals in life, but you was missing one things in your life a husband to share your life with ,and Al-Islam. The true religion that saved you from the hell fire, and made sense this was the true religion that can lead you in the right direction.

After awhile, of becoming humble, submissive to your husband, and his rights you became another woman. You had to accept polygamy in your life that was not accepted in Christianity or in your family history. You was taught one man one woman. Know in Islam you found out it's the mans rights to get another wife. Having a co wife enter into your marriage, how did it make you feel as a woman? Did your self-esteem or self worth get better or worse? Please share your thoughts.